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mtnguyLA 48 M
1  Article
moving to San Diego and need advise   10/5/2011

tell me about bars that are hiring bartenders and house's for rent and friends with no drama!

0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes
lance_potter 40 M
1  Article
How can I tell her I'm gay?   2/14/2010

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and we are all doing fine with our relationships. She keeps telling me that she loved me very much and she wants me to his husband and spend the rest of her life with me...The only problem is that I am gay, and she doesn't know about it. I have been with guys, had sex with few of them. I am good at hiding u know...I only did kiss and snog my ...

1 Comments, 35 Views, 0 Votes
gay_robert 34 M
1  Article
I'm so over the denial...   3/28/2008

I've come to the excedingly disturbing realization that i-as most of us queers tend to be-am an expert at denial. I suppose, in my case, "expert" doesn't even begin to describe the skills i was seemingly endowed with at birth to manipulate my thinking, and supress all the painful playgroud teasing that, enevitably, en-debted me hundreds of dollars to my shrink. This epiphany has allowed me to ...

0 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
1337blueyes 39 M
1  Article
Afghanistan anyone?   1/8/2008

I am always looking for friends... searches for Afghanistan area dont turn much over... any ideas?

0 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
2louinkw 68 M
2  Articles
We need more photos !   5/17/2007

We need more people to put their pictures with their profiles! I just checked out the profiles that are most compatible to me and I was down to number 23 before the first photo. I'm not going to waste my time writing to someone who, for whatever reason, can't come up with one picture. I can understand it in people who just joined, but some of you have been here for years! The standard member ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
nudecowboy 68 M
2  Articles
the art of edging   2/25/2007

I am a great fan of "edging". Making a session of last for several hours. The result is a very powerful orgasm and a great amount of semen is produced. This has proven to be somewhat difficult for some. Granted it is hard to stop what your doing momentaraly when your at the brink of orgasm. The benifits are well worth it if you can do this. You might consider that when you ejaculate the feeling ...

1 Comments, 99 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
nudecowboy 68 M
2  Articles
watersports   2/25/2007

I want to promote safe watersports. A lot of gays don't quite understand this activity, which is fine if it truely turns you off. However, I'll wager to say most have never experienced it and the image in the mind is somewhat crude. I believe it is a very close sharing by two men. To hold each other close and feel it run over the body is a very stimulating experience and tends to bond you ...

1 Comments, 64 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
All Moral and upright!   10/25/2006

Why is it that lots of gay guys suck cock and then build this wall in front of them and make themselves out to be such moral and upright citizens. "Oh Im such a moral Queer" and the rest of the gays are just useless queens, thats the typical attitude out there

6 Comments, 91 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
Things That I Learn So Far 10   8/14/2006

"Luxury is building tomorrows, living todays, and cherishing yesterdays."
"The hands that help are holier than the lips that pray."
"Spend not, where you may save; spare not, where you must spend."
"A wise man turns chance into good fortune."
"Dreams has as much influence as actions."

0 Comments, 33 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
Things that I Learn So Far 9   8/14/2006

"Nothing is impossible for the man who doesn't have to do it himself."
"Success is never final. Failure is never fatal. It's courage that counts."
"From the errors of others a wise man corrects his own."
"He who has health has hope, and he who has hope has everything."
"He who starts many things finishes nothing."

0 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 8   8/14/2006

"Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect."
"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage."
"To escape criticism - do nothing, say nothing, be nothing."
"A wise man will make more opportunites than he finds."
"Conscience warns us before it reproaches us."

0 Comments, 18 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 7   8/14/2006

"A good reputation is more valuable than money."
"Blessed are they who expect nothing, for they shall not be disappointed."
"Life is no bed of roses."
"You never know a man until you live with him."
"Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be."

0 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 6   8/14/2006

"The best things in life are free."
"You never miss the water till the well runs dry."
"Discretion is the better part of valor."
"Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely."
"There's no rule without an exception."

0 Comments, 17 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 5   8/14/2006

"The most important things in life aren't things."
"You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories."
"Live so that your friends can defend you but never have to."
"There are no shortcuts to any place worth giving."
"If you wait, all that happens is that you get older."

0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 4   8/14/2006

"Life cannot go on without much forgetting."
"Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing."
"The best way to escape from a problem is to solve it."
"Integrity is doing the right thing, even if nobody is watching."
"Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do."

0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 3   8/14/2006

"Patience is a virtue that carries a lot of wait."
"He who starts many things finishes nothing."
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."
"God's best gift to us is not things, but opportunities."
"Gratitude is the conscience of memory."

0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 2   8/14/2006

"The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook."
"To be happy, we must not be too concerned with others."
"Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement."
"Decision and perseverance are the noblest qualities of man."
"Humility is to make the right estimate of yourself."

0 Comments, 4 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
johnny_kaiser 45 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 1   8/14/2006

"We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope."
"Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win."
"We write write our own destiny. We become what we do."
"You have to stand for something or you'll fall for anything."
"Life is short, and it's up to you to make it sweet."

3 Comments, 22 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
JohnnyRaven 61 M
10  Articles
MANGA BOYS   6/21/2006

Manga Boys is the refreshing personal vision of young Japanese artist Kinu Sekiushi. His twentysomethingish boys seem to my eye to be an almost molecular fusion of European and Asian physical types set in an un-named tropical paradise, such as Hawaii or Fiji. Stylistically slanted blue eyes on elongated Caucasian faces, long-legged European bodies completely bare of typical body hair, ...

0 Comments, 100 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
JohnnyRaven 61 M
10  Articles

Joe Boy Adventures is the first installment in a series of soft-core gay male fantasy comics. Almost like a G-rated cartoon version of that cable TV icon of gay culture, QueerAsFolk. There are four five-page stories, and seven four-page scenarios with titles like School Daze, The Outfielder and Beach Bummed. Every drawing is clean-cut, youth oriented and thoroughly wholesome while still ...

0 Comments, 64 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
JohnnyRaven 61 M
10  Articles

More Bear Cooking is a sequel to the original Bear Cookin’ Cookbook. If you have a short attention span then this book is for you! No recipe is longer than a postcard. The recipes were collected more for shock value (with names like White Trash Stash, Porky’s Corn Bread and Cheese Crud) than for nutrition, but that said there are several recipes that might brighten a dark ...

0 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rendipi 56 M
1  Article
Being Queer in Small Towns   5/14/2006

I'm fine, thanks for asking. Except that I've moved back to my home town after living in major urban centres for half my life. Needless to say there's a bit of a culture shock moving from a city of five million to fifty thousand - and not just from a queer perspective. I mean, there's nowhere to go for a pizza or mango shake at two in the morning. If the statistics are correct, there would ...

1 Comments, 129 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
Online dating.   4/11/2006

Hi all. I love this form of introduction, the whole online experience. I have had alot of contact, but, as one would expect, fewer actual "dates". I'm not complaining at all, and though there seems to be plenty of guys to date, it looks like it's about a seven to one ratio of interest (winks, messages etc.) to actual "date". For me anyway. No, I don't actually see all the fellas that ...

0 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
kramer 45 M
12  Articles
Reminders   3/8/2006

REMiNDERS F0R TH0SE iN L0VE AND F0R TH0SE WH0 WiLL BE iN L0VE S0MEDAY: (applies also to married couples)
1. Never try to change your loved one to suit your own taste. It defeats the purpose of falling in love with him/her for what he really is.
2. More often than not, it is THE EX that couples often fight about. Try not to. In the first place, both of you know very ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
kramer 45 M
12  Articles
Quote   3/8/2006

The most important thing is that you loved and at one time you were trully loved. It's true that sometimes love diminishes with time but then there is always someone out there who is willing to give you the love that you so deserve. If ever that person didn't come at least you have good memories of the person or persons who have loved you at one time or the other. So don't be afraid to fall ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
kramer 45 M
12  Articles
The Missing 10%   3/7/2006

Something to reflect on.....

Sometime in life we are all looking for the missing 10% .. life is never perfect and there's no such thing as 100% .. Most of all, we are far from perfect too !!
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.
"Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
kramer 45 M
12  Articles
Attitude Is Everything   3/7/2006

Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"
He was a natural motivator.
If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. ...

1 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
kramer 45 M
12  Articles
Failure Is Never Fatal   3/7/2006

Fear not that you might fail…Fear rather that you might never succeed if you never dare to try.
Fear not that you might make a mistake believing in your dream…Fear rather that if you don’t go for it you might stand before God and He’ll tell you that you could have succeeded if you’d had more faith.
Fear ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
Online Friends or More   10/25/2005

I like the idea of maybe meeting nice guys for friendships or other things. No bar situation or loud noise to deal with. Gives you a chance to get to know each other somewhat, before you decide on maybe meeting in public sometime down the road when you both feel comfortable. <br> You find all kinds of people out there, some can hold intelligent/funny conversations and are ...

1 Comments, 98 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
ThickandEasy 71 M
1  Article
What Floor Are You On??   9/28/2005

Do you remember older buildings with elevators that didn't have digital readouts indicating which floor the elevator was on but rather having a half moon dial with a pointer, like a hand on a clock? Think of sexuality in this respect. Sexuality has different levels (or floors): We are not just gay, bisexual or straight. Think of the first floor as straight. Then in the center of the dial is ...

2 Comments, 117 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
pretty_sam 37 M
30  Articles
My Love letter to All of you!   6/13/2005

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means you're not a part of it. ...

0 Comments, 52 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
pretty_sam 37 M
30  Articles
My Opinion...   5/10/2005

No man or woman is worth your tears. The only one who is, will never make you cry. If you love someone, put their name in a circle, instead of a heart. <br> Hearts can break, but circles go on forever. Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't . <br> <br> If all my friends were to jump ...

0 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
pretty_sam 37 M
30  Articles
...   5/10/2005

x.. .s.T.a.Y._.h.A.p.i._.o.W.e.Y.z. ..x <br> <br> ~…tOo oFtEn wE UnDerEstImaTe tHe pOweR oF a tOucH, A sMile, a kInd wOrd, a LiStEniNg eAr, aN hOnEst cOmpLimEnt, oR tHe sMaLLeSt aCt oF cAriNg, oL Of wHiCh hAvE tHe pOteNtiaL tO tUrN a LifE aRoUnd…~ <br> <br> ~…NeVeR tAke sOmE1 4 gRaNted, eSp tHe pErsOn cLoSesT 2 yEr ...

0 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes
pretty_sam 37 M
30  Articles
~ He Sees ~   5/10/2005

Feeling as if her heart would break, Stinging words, they had lashed out. The tears she held, so deep within, Revealed her anguish and doubt. <br> They cut as if a two-edged sword. She fought the emotions within. But, in the recesses of her mind, Words echoed time and again. <br> <br> In the stillness of the night, She knelt to voice her plea. ...

0 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
pretty_sam 37 M
30  Articles
Thank you for your Friendship...   5/10/2005

Thank you for your friendship and your love. <br> However life may turn, this gift will be <br> <br> A mountain that has made my river bend, <br> <br> Nor will it flow the same way to the sea. <br> <br> Knowing you is something I'm made of. <br> <br> Years will not this part of me remove. <br> ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
pretty_sam 37 M
30  Articles
:*":..:*":..:*":..:*":..:* ":..:*":..   5/10/2005

I'll listen when you need to talk, I'll wipe away your tears, I'll share your worries when they come, I'll help you face your fears. <br> You're not alone, for I'm still here... I'll go that extra mile. And when your grief is easier, I'll help you learn to smile! ":..":..":..":.. ":..":.. tnx for havin' me here! God bless! <br> ...

0 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes
pretty_sam 37 M
30  Articles
A Friend...   5/10/2005

(A)ccepts you as you are (elieves in "you" (C)alls you just to say "HI" (D)oesn't give up on you (E)nvisions the whole of you (F)orgives your mistakes (G)ives unconditionally (H)elps you (nvites you over (J)ust "be" with you (K)eeps you close at heart (oves you for who you are (M)akes a difference in your life (N)ever Judges (ffers support (P)icks ...

1 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Flame the Bad Memories   4/2/2005

Often we are haunted by things from our past. We may bore our friends or family by rehashing the same event over and over. We seem never to get over it and go beyond it to your future. <br> There is one way to put it in your past. You have to write it down. Your must state what happened. State how it affected you and how it hurts you now. Tell it like you are talking to ...

0 Comments, 73 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
GregoryScott611 54 M
2  Articles
Is he Mr. Right?   3/31/2005

I've been managing people for over 14 years and I've really become a great judge of character. A lot of guys can talk the talk, but can they walk the talk too? Keep an eye out for any patterns of trust, respect and honesty beging broken. A cheat, thief and a liar can not be perfect all the time. Trust your instincts and don't let your love blind you to the truth; don't settle for ...

1 Comments, 120 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
jim696998 80 M
25  Articles
Lets get involved   3/9/2005

I have noticed that people are reading the articles that I am and others are writing for you to read but that you are not getting involved much and voting or adding comments to these atricles as you are able to do. Also there could be a lot more of you that are joining this site that you could also write some articles yourself. These articles are your way of expressing how you feell and to ...

0 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
jim696998 80 M
25  Articles
lets keep thing current here   2/16/2005

I have noticed that many of the articles here have been carried over from a long time before this was a gay mens site. Some of them are about men and some are not totally. Some have some very good advice and some do not but maybe it is also good to have the ones from before posted here so others can go back and see what was said before the site was formulated. What do you all think, lets ...

0 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Flashmon 61 M
5  Articles
Advice for Youth Starting on Thier Career Path   2/2/2005

Advice for Youth Starting on Thier Career Path Fri Aug 20 2004 02:29 <br> I can tell from your high sense of Justice and Idealism that you'll be called to much greater things. Do the small things well and greater things will be asked of you. <br> May the Peace of Jah and Assurance in your chosen Tao manifest itself to you as you seek the fullfillment of your ...

0 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
jim696998 80 M
25  Articles
Growing up gay but hiding it   1/28/2005

I have enjoyed the company of males all my life, but when I was younger it was not as it is now where being gay is a lot more commonplace. In my younger days it was unheard of to love a man. I spent my life in denial, meeting women, marrying them and having . I do not ever regret having my as they are two of the best in the world today, both very commited to their partners and their , ...

1 Comments, 146 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
Don't be loose   6/11/2004

One thing in a relationship is to be honest as much as you like the person so not be easy to fall into bed the old fasion values still work get to know someone then deside how you feel about them date go out have a blast don't just fall into bed

0 Comments, 121 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Well He/She Dumped You ! What Are you gonna do ?   1/3/1999

Well from my personal experience i just have to say that it ain't very easy to get over it, If it was your first love it would be deveastating. So you might be thinking that i make making problems more difficult. But hey if you wanna over come this you must come to the root of the problem. So how to over come your past memories ? SIMPLE you just have to out do her/him. Have a new fashion ...

0 Comments, 60 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score