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mtnguyLA 43 M
1  Article
moving to San Diego and need advise   10/5/2011

tell me about bars that are hiring bartenders and house's for rent and friends with no drama!


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lance_potter 35 M
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How can I tell her I'm gay?   2/14/2010

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and we are all doing fine with our relationships. She keeps telling me that she loved me very much and she wants me to his husband and spend the rest of her life with me...The only problem is that I am gay, and she doesn't know about it. I have been with guys, had sex with few of them. I am good at hiding u know...I only did kiss and snog my ...


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MyLook 64 M
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Surprise   12/21/2008

First of all Would like to do 2 informations 1 My mother language is not English, so I back you pardon in advance. 2 In the past I spent all my energy in job, that allowed me to avoid thinking at my life.

In my ideas I suppose to find here differences with the outside ( people call this virtual reality ) in relationship, but nothing is wrong more then this.

I found closed ...


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gay_robert 28 M
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I'm so over the denial...   3/28/2008

I've come to the excedingly disturbing realization that i-as most of us queers tend to be-am an expert at denial. I suppose, in my case, "expert" doesn't even begin to describe the skills i was seemingly endowed with at birth to manipulate my thinking, and supress all the painful playgroud teasing that, enevitably, en-debted me hundreds of dollars to my shrink. This epiphany has allowed me to ...


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1337blueyes 34 M
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Afghanistan anyone?   1/8/2008

I am always looking for friends... searches for Afghanistan area dont turn much over... any ideas?


0 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
2louinkw 63 M
2  Articles
We need more photos !   5/17/2007

We need more people to put their pictures with their profiles! I just checked out the profiles that are most compatible to me and I was down to number 23 before the first photo. I'm not going to waste my time writing to someone who, for whatever reason, can't come up with one picture. I can understand it in people who just joined, but some of you have been here for years! The standard member ...


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johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
Things That I Learn So Far 10   8/14/2006

"Luxury is building tomorrows, living todays, and cherishing yesterdays."
"The hands that help are holier than the lips that pray."
"Spend not, where you may save; spare not, where you must spend."
"A wise man turns chance into good fortune."
"Dreams has as much influence as actions."


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johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
Things that I Learn So Far 9   8/14/2006

"Nothing is impossible for the man who doesn't have to do it himself."
"Success is never final. Failure is never fatal. It's courage that counts."
"From the errors of others a wise man corrects his own."
"He who has health has hope, and he who has hope has everything."
"He who starts many things finishes nothing."


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johnny_kaiser 40 M
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What I Learn So Far 8   8/14/2006

"Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect."
"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage."
"To escape criticism - do nothing, say nothing, be nothing."
"A wise man will make more opportunites than he finds."
"Conscience warns us before it reproaches us."


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johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 7   8/14/2006

"A good reputation is more valuable than money."
"Blessed are they who expect nothing, for they shall not be disappointed."
"Life is no bed of roses."
"You never know a man until you live with him."
"Life is what we make it, always has been, always will be."


0 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 6   8/14/2006

"The best things in life are free."
"You never miss the water till the well runs dry."
"Discretion is the better part of valor."
"Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely."
"There's no rule without an exception."


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johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 5   8/14/2006

"The most important things in life aren't things."
"You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories."
"Live so that your friends can defend you but never have to."
"There are no shortcuts to any place worth giving."
"If you wait, all that happens is that you get older."


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johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 4   8/14/2006

"Life cannot go on without much forgetting."
"Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing."
"The best way to escape from a problem is to solve it."
"Integrity is doing the right thing, even if nobody is watching."
"Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do."


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 3   8/14/2006

"Patience is a virtue that carries a lot of wait."
"He who starts many things finishes nothing."
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."
"God's best gift to us is not things, but opportunities."
"Gratitude is the conscience of memory."


0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 2   8/14/2006

"The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook."
"To be happy, we must not be too concerned with others."
"Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of all achievement."
"Decision and perseverance are the noblest qualities of man."
"Humility is to make the right estimate of yourself."


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johnny_kaiser 40 M
10  Articles
What I Learn So Far 1   8/14/2006

"We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope."
"Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win."
"We write write our own destiny. We become what we do."
"You have to stand for something or you'll fall for anything."
"Life is short, and it's up to you to make it sweet."


1 Comments, 22 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
rendipi 51 M
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Being Queer in Small Towns   5/14/2006

I'm fine, thanks for asking. Except that I've moved back to my home town after living in major urban centres for half my life. Needless to say there's a bit of a culture shock moving from a city of five million to fifty thousand - and not just from a queer perspective. I mean, there's nowhere to go for a pizza or mango shake at two in the morning. If the statistics are correct, there would ...


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ThickandEasy 66 M
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What Floor Are You On??   9/28/2005

Do you remember older buildings with elevators that didn't have digital readouts indicating which floor the elevator was on but rather having a half moon dial with a pointer, like a hand on a clock? Think of sexuality in this respect. Sexuality has different levels (or floors): We are not just gay, bisexual or straight. Think of the first floor as straight. Then in the center of the dial is ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Flashmon 56 M
5  Articles
Advice for Youth Starting on Thier Career Path   2/2/2005

Advice for Youth Starting on Thier Career Path Fri Aug 20 2004 02:29 <br> I can tell from your high sense of Justice and Idealism that you'll be called to much greater things. Do the small things well and greater things will be asked of you. <br> May the Peace of Jah and Assurance in your chosen Tao manifest itself to you as you seek the fullfillment of your ...


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