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whos going to pop my man cherry - 5/11/2015

bi cur someone needs to show me the eopes

0 response(s), 1 vote
adusei 28 M
1  question
i cant write any message to any one - 4/28/2015

pls i cant message any one

0 response(s), 1 vote
AdamR89 29 M
1  question
Could a relationship between a young and an old guy work? - 1/9/2013

I think an older guy can have a romantic side that a younger guy would want in his life. And a younger guy has the energy the older guy would like. C'mon guys let me know.

4 response(s), 12 votes
Is GFF dieing a slow death (or already dead)? - 4/15/2011

I know I am new here, but it seems there is almost no one online here, and the ones who are only look for a quick nut and nothing more.

5 response(s), 12 votes
Lcd18 64 M
3  questions
Making out. - 3/3/2011

I'm curious, when should you start making out, after the first meet a greet?, the first

date?and what would lead up to the actual making out?, would it take place in a car or

a motel room?.Responses welcome.

4 response(s), 10 votes
Lcd18 64 M
3  questions
Can you restart a relationship? - 12/29/2010

I'm straight and was caught by a CD's profile, we found each other attractive.i was nervous and feel that they blew me off, i want to get back in touch again and meet this time and make it work.Has anyone experianced this?How di it go?...

3 response(s), 9 votes
Lcd18 64 M
3  questions
Safe Sex Cleansing - 12/15/2010

Before sex do you give or receive an enama from your lover or do you do it yourself?, does the experiance make for a closer

bond between you and your lover? or do you just go at each other with no thought for

safety?

4 response(s), 5 votes
adamLoveOldMan
1  question
why young Boy love Old Man !!! I Love Old Man SO Much But i Cant Know Why!! - 7/26/2010

Young Boy Love Old Man Maybe Because they have more experience and more... and more ... and more.... Oh !! loooooool Nice Old Man I Cant Make Sex without Old Man^__^ Really Fuck all Sex But GOod Sex with Old Man

4 response(s), 21 votes
life4537 45 M
1  question
when you feel love for a man? - 5/2/2010

many men want to have sex with men, sex is an instinct, we all have, but it is no coincidence that many are expressing the need to have sex without feeling "less men" express aggression and a misunderstood role "macho" but still looking men, no doubt believe that the most wonderful thing that can happen is to feel love for a man, I'm biseexual, I was deeply in love with two women in different ...

6 response(s), 28 votes
tristanubod 37 M
1  question
My first experience in sex when i was 12 years old been moslested with my cousin - 3/6/2010

Do you think im i right that experience and trumas make me now bisexual guy.Bec im attracted to a men like me dont choose any races or colors aslong love mein real.

7 response(s), 18 votes
my wish before i get married - 10/10/2009

i have always wanted a group oral orgy so i m asking all you guys anyone intersted i need 5 guys nad lots of cum 44 verse ct here wellhung full lips long thick tounge any takers plz bring doctors papers stating dd free

2 response(s), 14 votes
hornyboy121 29 M
1  question
am i being noticed? - 4/28/2008

..just wanted to get more adds

1 response(s), 17 votes
john2494 68 M
1  question
In or out of the closet - 12/23/2007

In some countries or communities many gays are still keep themselves in the closet, while others out.What factors influence these pointsf one's own, family, community, and/or country.How about you or your experiences. ...

1 response(s), 7 votes
chasingliberty20 32 M
2  questions
I WANT YOUR OPINION, REACITONS AND YOUR SPECIAL POINTS OF VIEW - 8/25/2007

HELLO TO EVERYONE OUT THERE. I REALLY WANT YOU SPECIAL POINTS OF VIEW ABOUT MY QUESTION. WHY SHOULD I FOR MORE THAN A YEARS AND I AM ALMOST IN 20 YEARS OLD, I NEVER HAVE EXPERIENCE ABOUT HAVING MY LIFE PARTNER EVER SINCE BEFORE. AM I FORBIDDEN TO THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. SOME SAYS THAT ITS VERY IMPOSSIBLE THAT I NEVER EXPEREINCE YET AND HAVE IT IN MY WHOLE LIFE. I SAID, YES ITS TRUE. I NEVER ...

0 response(s), 6 votes
chasingliberty20 32 M
2  questions
love has no gender - 8/25/2007

WE PEOPLE ARE FREE TO LOVE EVERYTHING BECAUSE LOVE ITSELF IS SOMEWHERE AND CAN BE FOUND TO ANYWHERE AS LONG AS YOU MEET THE PERSON YOU INSPIRED AND YOU FEEL YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH.

DON'T FEEL WORRIEDNESS ABOUT LOVE BECAUSE YOU HAVE THE POWER TO LOVE SOMEONE. LOVE HAS NO GENDER AS I BELIEVE. SO YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU WANT YOU TO BE LOVE FOR AND YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU WANT YOU TO BE YOUR LIFE ...

2 response(s), 14 votes
MrCofWi 61 M
1  question
Bi curious? - 3/27/2007

OK ... so if somebody is a total virgin ... let's say the star quarterback of the HS football team ... and all he fantasizes and gets excited about are the young ladies on the cheer leading squad ... would that make him straight-curious? After all, he's never acted on his straight interests. It's just something he thinks about ... a lot.
If that does make him ...

0 response(s), 4 votes
muguangshun 39 M
2  questions
Headache headache - 8/14/2006

I just arrived Africa, here condition very was really backward, nearly did not have the network, also did not have the gay bar, how could I find other homosexuality?

1 response(s), 5 votes
muguangshun 39 M
2  questions
Why am I sure to like the black? - 8/14/2006

I like the black very much, in particular to their strong body, thick penis

1 response(s), 5 votes
ooty 49 M
1  question
why white guy say asian guy easy to pick up? - 5/9/2006

becouse asian guy always go to the white guy first and offer then self to the white guy

2 response(s), 17 votes
bluehawk000 35 M
1  question
I WAS CONFUSE??? - 4/30/2006

As i remembered what have happened last month, someone wants to meet me, he told me he likes me so much, he loves me, though he never meet me in persons. we just chat for how many days. That time he decided to fly to philippines to meet me.AFTER on we meet then when he meets me, ohhh we talk know each other, and someone happens to us..to be frank we had sex that time. 2 weeks after i just ...

0 response(s), 16 votes
wildman391000 55 M
1  question
lookin g for love , wildman 39 - 4/9/2006

iv been on all theys set here and still cant fine no one to love me here , iam a nice man here , who is just looking for love , so how do you fine love here , some one till me here or fine me man iam here all most 40 still ante got no one in my life here ,

0 response(s), 6 votes
davea 61 M
5  questions
Does it work for you? - 3/19/2006

Does this site work for you? I'm a Siler member, and I've complained for months that the "who's viewing me" link does not work for me. I've gotten a number of messages, but not one profile has shown up when I click that link. How can someone send me a message, and not view my profile? After months, the site finally sent me a test profile, and told me they viewed my profile, see my other ...

2 response(s), 11 votes
question about nothing - 3/16/2006

What's goin on with everybody else?

1 response(s), 8 votes
davea 61 M
5  questions
Please view my profile - 2/25/2006

I've had a number of messages sent to me in the couple months I've been on this site, but have had no people who have viewed my profile. I'm trying to figure out how someone can send me a message without viewing my profile.

2 response(s), 17 votes
davea 61 M
5  questions
More Advice - 2/13/2006

Doesn't anyone need any advise? I haven't seen anyone new lately.

0 response(s), 4 votes
davea 61 M
5  questions
Site still not working right!!!!!!!!! - 2/7/2006

I finally got a profile that was viewing me, but it was with a wink. As soon as I deleted the wink, the profile no longer was there in people who were viewing me! I've complained so many times!!!!! The site sent me a profile as a test, but it was with a wink. It showed up, but was gone as soon as I deleted the wink.

0 response(s), 7 votes
davea 61 M
5  questions
No views yet!!!!!! - 1/28/2006

I've been on this site for a month, and have yet to have anyone view my profile. My home page still states on it that my profile is pending review. I've e-mailed about 4 complaints to the sirte do far, and have not gotten any kind of a response. I've got profiles on AFF and alt, and they get 200% better results, and I've always gotten a response to any comments or complaints I have made ...

1 response(s), 9 votes
blowngo94 53 M
1  question
last long enough? - 12/27/2005

i have a boy friend who can last all night! i do okay but want to last longer for him what can i do to help me to last longer when i am having sex with the one i love?

0 response(s), 9 votes
salacioussirens 41 M
1  question
Why do I? - 12/22/2005

I get on line and chat with other boys and I am not wanting anything else but to chat. I am finding it that my boyfriend is not happy with me for doing that. What should I do. I love my man and that will never change.

0 response(s), 5 votes
little_cutie2 32 M
2  questions
What would make a guy hot or cute? - 5/7/2005

what would be the hottest of a man to be the best and why would that be...

1 response(s), 15 votes
little_cutie2 32 M
2  questions
Does first appearance matter or is it the second ? - 5/7/2005

Your ideal apperance for your first date would be explain as ... exciting or something that was free... which one would you chose first or second

0 response(s), 10 votes
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
Participation is key! - 4/9/2005

I hear alot of boo-hooing about not meeting up with anybody or getting responses, etc. on this site & I find that it's coming from guys that number one have not bothered to post a photo, & number two are not taking full advantage of what the site has to offer. One good way of getting attention is through Blogs, Blogs are good because you can post a new one every day or every week, etc. & ...

3 response(s), 9 votes
hasand 35 M
3  questions
Crushes - 4/8/2005

How many of you guys have had high-school crushes on another guy, but were too afraid to tell them? For me, there's only been one guy, on which to this day, I still have a maddening crush on.

0 response(s), 6 votes
hasand 35 M
3  questions
coming out - 3/29/2005

does anybody have any advice that i could use for coming out to my family. i know each family is different, and numerous factors could influence their reaction. some of my friends already know about my sexual preference, but i don't know what my family will think. i don't know if i'll ever feel comfortable telling them.

0 response(s), 4 votes
hasand 35 M
3  questions
image over personality - 3/25/2005

how many guys out there consider a person's personality before their outward image...at first glance. if he didn't have runway-model looks, would you still consider asking him on a date, or would you simply dismiss him and move on, not even bothering to get to know him. just kinda curious is all. <br> <br> p.s. my shift key doesn't work.

1 response(s), 11 votes
Paul_G 59 M
1  question
Sex & health - 3/21/2005

Just a word of advise. The AIDS/HIV crisis isn't over so be careful. <br> I say this because I am surprised atthe muber of people that want to top them and then the y say nothing about condoms and some say oh please do not use one . <br> I will foever more use a condom unless I'm in a relationship for like twenty years and I totally trust my partner and we have had ...

0 response(s), 11 votes
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE#3 - 3/18/2005

You guys that post fake or copyrighted photos on your profile, don't bother because the photo police are out there! GOOD JOB with yet another catch & fix GFF! Keep up the good work keeping it honest & keeping it real!

0 response(s), 10 votes
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
View Only Listings With Photos... - 3/15/2005

You guys get your photos uploaded! Some guys won't even view profiles without photos, it's a fact! Some of you don't have photos & you wonder why you don't get browsed or have "bites" as you put it. Not having a photo on your profile is part of the reason I guarantee it!

0 response(s), 8 votes
where are all the crossdressers or trannys - 3/14/2005

I a hot top. clean openmindded and hung. I love a girl thats sexy and looks great in lingerie and has a little something extra in her panties. Id love to chat and meet that special girl. brian

2 response(s), 9 votes
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
Our Boy Alex.....? - 3/13/2005

Where has our favorite question boy ___Alex___ gone? I ask to see "more" of him & some of you agree, then suddenly he is gone! The suspense is killing me, I am waiting for more! Alex where are you? COME BACK! And when you do will you reveal yourself... take off at least a little bit?

0 response(s), 2 votes
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE#2 - 3/12/2005

The GFF Network must have caught up with "unchulin" & noticed he was using a copyrighted picture & removed it because now his profile has no picture. Good work GFF! Let's keep it honest & let's keep it real!

0 response(s), 1 vote
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE - 3/10/2005

The person using using the picture of actor Josh Hartnett as his profile picture is "unchulin" (that's his handle) let's all put in a request to this ----- (fill in word of choice) to use a picture of himself or no picture at all! Isn't honesty the best policy? If you want to post celebrity pictures you can use your private photo albums but your profile picture should be one of you! Like I ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE - 3/4/2005

This is more a request than a question... if you're going to bother to post a picture or pictures on your profile make sure that the pictures are of you & not some celebrity or some picture you have downloaded from some porn site or an Abercrombie catalogue. Some jerk on this site has actually posted a picture of Josh Hartnett (the actor) as his profile picture! It's the black & white one ...

2 response(s), 9 votes
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
Self-Centered Guys Attractive? - 2/19/2005

Are any of you guys attracted to those guys who are really stuck on themselves? I have dated a number of guys that have model-looks & 2 of them were long-term, & I have found that for the most part they thought they were great guys based on the way they looked. The sad reality was that most of them really were just good looking jerks! Anybody had the same experience?

0 response(s), 10 votes
anaheimbadboy2 49 M
9  questions
Requesting Nudies From Alex - 2/18/2005

I think our question boy Alex is a hottie! I would like to see "more" of him! Anyone agree? So, Alex... what do you think?

0 response(s), 14 votes
YQTB2000 39 M
1  question
I want to try bottom - 2/10/2005

I always been top, but i want to try bottom. The thing is that i tried and i used a lot of lube but it hurt as hell. Do u guys know how i can do it with out feeling as much pain.

1 response(s), 8 votes